August 21, 2010

Saturday is a day that's meant for rest, but we worked and had fun instead

First off, a good friend, Brad, is really in the fight of his life with cancer.  If you pray, please consider lifting up Brad and his family, Jen, Paige and Hannah.  They are a great family.  I really hate cancer.

Transitions are always hard, but going from that to something lighter, well, it's going to be choppy.

Cleaned the house today from top to bottom today.  Then the "loaner dog", aka Bean, came in.  1 step forward, 2 muddy steps backward.

Holly gets to work this weekend.  While we miss her, it is what it is and it forces me to be a bit more intentional, at least for a few hours, with the boys.

What's intentional mean?  Spending time with them, out of the house, out of our comfort zones making memories (that's what I think, they think I'm sappy).

OK, next you need a bit of background.  Grand Rapids Michigan is a bit off the beaten path, but we like to have fun.  There's a guy named Rob Bliss that really likes to involve the whole community.  He's a bit of a "social media" phenomenon.  He made is splash here with a huge pillow fight in downtown Grand Rapids and followed that with a Zombie Walk near Halloween years ago.  Last year he had a hand in "Art Prize", we weren't sure what would happen, but we found out that we have some pretty cool artistic folk. 

Anyway, today's event was turning 2 blocks of Lyon street, which has a nice gradual slope from east to west, into a 2 block water slide.  Pretty cool, you can see the slide at this YouTube Video spot.  
The boys and I went down to check it out, Spencer was the only one that was totally prepared to risk it all for the sake of the Young name.  Then we realized that the line was ridiculously long, like 5 to 6 blocks. 


 This is the end of the slide







 

 I asked someone in here and they said it'd been about 2 hours of waiting.  They seemed calm, in fact everyone seemed to be enjoying that they were a part of a unique event.



 

 Here's the starting point.  You really couldn't get a good angle on the slide.
 
The water from the fire hydrant seemed pretty strong.








We didn't wait, rather we walked the course and then went and visited Holly.  We got to see where she sits and some of the people that she works with.  She had a great crew with her tonight.

On the way back to the car Ian got into an artistic mode and wanted some new facebook photos and so we played while walking back to the car.  (Hmm, intentional parenting?  I think so.)

Here's Ian on a ledge near GRCC and the GR site of Ferris University
















Spencer is serious about this pose and don't you forget it!

















Ian found this spot near the car and this is the best of the ones that we took.  He really likes the urban flavor of the shot.
















Spencer was definitely my guide down town.








This is the top of the GRCC parking structure and other roofs.









Have a great day, and please lift up the Brad, Jen, Paige and Hannah.
Pat

Holly and Pat, Sittin in a Tree...

Would you believe me if I said that it's been 22 years since I married Holly?  I can't.  I feel so blessed to have met her (Thanks for the introduction Jean!).  Before the shout out for us, a few other shout outs and random thoughts.

Dale and Jean Phillips share our anniversary date.  They've been married a bit longer, but that number is irrelevant, what's relevant, they still genuinely care for each other, way to go guys!  I tried to locate a picture, but unfortunately, my filing system is difficult to manage at times.  I hope that you have had a great day.

Today is my nephew Matt's actual birthday, yes Pam, I knew that.  One last time Matt, have a great day/weekend/year! 











Work was pretty work like, really getting mired down with activity, not seeing the results so much.  Need to pick up my head more often.

Went out on a double date with Jeff and Lissa tonight.  Dinner at Grill 111 and then a Whitecaps game.  How romantic.  I snuck off at one point in the game and had our anniversary announced.  Pretty cool, it was announced in the 7th inning, I'm sitting there and hear it coming and nudge Holly to get her to listen.  She smiled and blushed, it was pretty cool.

Here are some shots through the years of our life together.

Wedding Day, she was 12 and I was 16(Not!)




















Holly and Pat Young















 




I believe that Ian was our photographer for this one.












 Pretty sure he's at it again











 Yeah, the height on this one gives him away












 He did have a good eye












 This was with a timer, teeth that week were optional










Who doesn't love Spammy?












 Last winter at a Red Wings Hockey game.  Red Wings won!













 Self portrait














 I wonder why she puts up with me?












She was the belle of the ball!
Me?  I was an outlaw.
Type Casting?














 
I am a really lucky guy.  Thanks Holly, you're the best!

Have a great day everyone!
Pat

August 18, 2010

Wednesday, nearly the weekend!

Work is still crazy busy and I don't see any relief for months.  Business is coming back and some customers are thinking we can help them, we may need to rethink how to serve everyone!

Holly has just been accepted at Ferris State University into the Computer Information Technology program.  The goal is to get out of college before both our boys are done.  Go Bulldogs!  I'd like to show their logo but ... am ... drawn ... to ... ISU!














And so it goes.

Hey, I know I am way early, but I have had and continue to have a pretty busy schedule.  I want to give my nephew Matt a Birthday shout out and make sure it's before the actual day.  Hey Matt, This one's for you!

Some of these shots were provided by an un-named source.  With that information, you know that I have to make up my own captions now.  Matt, it's all in fun, OK?


Some how or another, I always end up on the floor with a weird pink background, maybe I should check the crowd I hang with...










 No, really, I am all that...










 


 and a bag of chips!










 

 Was my Dad really a Sailor?  Yikes!













Nothing like fresh seafood to take a meal beyond the hum drum.










 

My super power is being able to see through these glasses!









 


High five for Big Blue, no, not IBM, the real Big Blue, my personal favorite M&M Blue!








 

Just so you know, they're not all from elsewhere.  I took this one a few years back.  Ian, Bryce, Mike and Matt.  I do love my nephews!












 I snagged this one from FB, it's of Karissa and Matt.  I can almost hear them; "We're living the dream, don't you want to too?"










 
And there we have it, Matt's an awesome guy and I think that everyone should lift a glass and toast him.  Here goes: "Hey Matt!  Happy Birthday!"  Yes Pam, I know, his birthday is Friday, but I like to be on time and if I can't be on time, I'll choose to be early.

Have a great day,
Pat

August 15, 2010

The weather has broken!

Rough week at work this week.  Nuff said.

Pretty busy weekend too!  Saturday I was hoping to hang out, but ended up at training for selling Boy Scout Popcorn for the afternoon and then Holly had gotten tickets to our local minor league baseball team, the West Michigan Whitecaps. 

An afternoon of training sessions about the best way to get the most out of the popcorn sales, not my first choice, but it's going to be benefit the Troop in the end.

The baseball game was pretty good, our team was really doing well and the final score was 12 to 3.

Holly took this shot with her cell phone.  Pretty good!

Our seats were behind home plate and we were in the 21st row, in all, they were good seats, way better than the grass.

The tickets came from her employer and included meal vouchers.  Really nice.

I wanted some peanuts during the later innings and so Ian went to get me some, they were out and would have more in 15 minutes.  I'd never heard of that.  After 15 minutes Ian went and got me my peanuts.  They were screaming Mimi hot!  They had run out and freshly roasted a batch and we got the first of them.  They didn't have much salt, but they were really tasty.

Saw lots of people that we knew at the game, it was really kind of funny, her company, a large health care organization, must have given out 1000 tickets, we saw neighbors, the scoutmaster, people that Holly works with and people that I work with.


After the game there was a pretty nice fireworks display.  Spencer was pretty nervous, but once they got started he realized that there wasn't any reason to be nervous and just relaxed and enjoyed the show.

Walking out I used the megaphone that my peanuts came in  and was pretty embarrassing for my boys.  I used my best Darth Vader voice and called out to Ian; "Ian, I am your Father!(add in mechanical breathing sound)"  While he claims he wasn't amused, he was smirking.

Have a great day!
Pat

August 11, 2010

Rafting in West Virginia, part 3

Looky here!  I have raised the bar back to 3 times in a week.  Whew, my fingers are tired just thinking about it.

Lots going on at work, spent some time with a cool customer, they have the fun and young image and so I really need to connect more with them.  They get good "Buzz" and if you have stuff with them, you'll get good buzz.  I never really understood that until I stuck with a single industry for so long.  This office furniture stuff is kind of crazy.  I try to avoid mentioning the customer names because they have web crawlers that locate this kind of stuff and besides, I don't want to be an instrument of the man.

Day 3 of the white water trip.

We got up at 6 again to get the boys moving.  Had breakfast at Buffler's again, same menu, this time I focused a bit more on the fruit. 

Today our tour leader was a guy named Johnny.  Our group would be made up of 5 large rafts, each with a guide and up to 8 "guests".  Why they refer to us as guests I'll never know, when you're a guest in my house you don't work, you are served.  Here you have to help haul the boats up and down and all around.  We only had enough in our group to fill 2 rafts and then 4 of us were put with 2 others, a man and his young son.  There was also a full boat of couples and a full boat of housewives from Cincinnati (Johnny took the boatload of housewives).

Once again we suit up with a PFD, a helmet and this time a standard oar.  The first thing that I notice is that these are either a lot less work or the current is a lot faster.  Cool thing was we put in for this part of the adventure at the same place we got out yesterday.  So we're seeing quite a long stretch of the river over 2 days, very cool.

The day passed even more lazily than with the duckies because there was less paddling.  There wee lots of rapids and they were closer together.  Just like the day before we had lunch on a beach.  It was hot and humid, but whenever we got to flat water the guides offered that we could get out and swim.  The water temp was still about 80.

This leg had a Jump Rock was about as cool as the one the day before.  The cool thing that they had was a spot that they called Karma Cavern.  It went like this, you jumped in about 5 feet off this big rock and you landed in a fairly strong current.  The current sucked you down, under water into a really large and deep hole.  It was like this for me:  Our boat pulled up and I've got butterflies in my stomach, I'd heard that this will suck you under water for 10 seconds.  I'm not sure I want to try , but the boys are already lining up to jump, Ian and Spencer are behind my boat, can I let them see me pass on this?  No way!  I get out and get in line with the rest of the lemmings.  As I wait I can barely hear Johnny telling them where to jump because of the noise of the white water roaring around the rocks.  Soon enough it's my turn, with Ian and Spencer now getting out of the boat to get in line I knew that I had no option, I had to jump.  I asked Johnny to point out where to land.  He smirked and pointed to a spot about 5 feet out and 2 feet up river, "there's the best spot to land, right there!" he said to me.  I crossed my arms over my life jacket, used one hand to hold my glasses in place and leaped.  I landed right where he said I should!  Swoosh, I went straight down, just like jumping off into a a pool, but I seemed to go down for a really long time.  I had no sensation of rising, only going iwth the current.  Would my life jacket be enough to lift me up?  5 seconds.  How long could I go?  Should I kick my feet to go up?  No, remember the warning, when you're in the river keep your feet from the rocks, foot entrapment is a real an scary deal.  8 seconds. Am I drifting up?  I am, nearly to the surface.  I turn my face down in an attempt to slow my rise to the top.  Finally I break the surface and am on top.  I look around and see Johnny, 50 feet away, he nods at me and says; "Good one." and then turns to tell the next to jump.  It was totally awesome!  I wanted to swim back up stream and do it again.

I was able to watch Ian and Spencer take the plunge from the unique position of floating in the river.  I don't know if they hit it as well, but I was really proud to see them go as hard as they could trying.


The rest of the day was great, but by comparison, nothing to write home (aka to you) about.

The ride home was on yet another converted prison, I mean school bus.  The guide that was with Ian and Spencer sat next to me and we talked about what a great couple of kids I had.  He was curious about why the Dad wouldn't be in the same boat, and all I said was they need their space, I pointed out that I was never far and normally fairly tuned in, but willing to let them learn from him.  That was impressive to him. I asked about what he was doing there.  I got a smirk that really reminded me of Larry and this response; "It's a life style choice."  He knows he doesn't have as much as others his age, but he was truly addicted to white water and being on the river.  Nice to see, when he was in his twenties, wonder how he'll do as he ages?

Later that night we had dinner at the Smokies, a fancy restaurant that made room for us and our buffet of hamburgers, hot dogs, baked beans, potato salad, chips and cookies.  A great meal?  Not so sure, it was the same as the previous, tasty, but boring.  Even the boys were talking about revolting if we had to eat the same food again on the next night.

Some of the adults went for a walk after dinner and we ended up on a platform overlooking the New River Gorge.  I took this with a timer, in it is me, Tom, Gil, Tim and Steve.  Missing from the adults were; Eric and Vicky (Tim's wife).  Great group of guys to hang with on this kind of adventure.

That night there was a band playing in the common area across the road and they had wings on sale for the low, low price of 3 wings for a buck.  We went and listed to the music.  It was really fun to watch these guys, no amps, a single microphone and they playing blue grass/folk/country/great music.  What a great way to end the day.

Have a great day!
Pat

August 10, 2010

Happy Birthday Larry

We'll it's been two days and already my West Virginia vacation seems but a distant memory.  I was going to skip tonight's installment, no big news there, I'm pretty hit or miss lately.

But how can I not give a Birthday Shout out to my Brother In Law Larry?  I can't.

I don't have the old shots of Larry that I do from our family, which is probably OK with Larry, but here's a few that I do have. 


Each summer we try to take a weekend and go hang out with Larry, Terri and Jake.  This was from quite awhile ago with Uncle Larry showing the boys the ropes on the raft.






 

 Larry and Spencer giving me the ride of my life.









 

 Larry and Terri stopped over on their way to a formal and so since they got all dressed up, we had to have a picture.







 

 Christmas one year, that's Larry hiding behind Jake and Spencer.








 

 A good shot from one of the summer weekends.











 
 This year at AutoRama.  Great truck!







 

 Serious Christmas pose











 
 Not so serious











 
 Here he took us to an area with a large herd of deer right near their home.









 

Finally, this is a shot I took a few years back adn have always liked.  Not sure if Larry does or not, but then again, I'm doing the typing, so he's not got much to say does he!










That's about it.  Larry, thanks for all that you do for us, I really appreciate your friendship and you're a great Brother!  Have an awesome year!

Pat

August 8, 2010

Workday at the ranch

Got up and out today and went to my Men's group.  Well, OK, it was just the two of us today.  Summer's pretty busy for everyone, you know it's true! 

We got after the trees today.  Holly had mowed while we were gone and pointed out that the trees all needed to have a trim so that you could mow under them without doing the GI Joe crawl behind the mower.  It's a pretty dangerous thing, having me trim, once I get going it's hard to stop.  You see, it starts out simple enough, small clippers.  Soon enough, that's not enough, I upgrade to the loppers that will take down a 1" thick branch, soon enough, it's not enough, I grab the bow saw and start getting after the bigger stuff.  After a few minutes I head to the shed and am usually cut off by Holly, she knows the chain saw is next and then it gets pretty scary!  She never lets me trim trees without her around, now you know why.

Day 2 of the white water trip.

Up at 6 to get the boys moving.  Figure we need to get to Buffler's, the breakfast buffet at the camp, by 7 to have time to get to the place to meet the guide by 8.  All you can eat with biscuits and gravy, eggs, bacon, sausage, cheesy hash browns and a never empty pot of good, dark coffee.  Oh, there was fresh fruit as well.  We all carbed up because we knew that we'd be on the river for quite awhile.

George was our tour leader and he'd be in the full size raft with all the supplies for lunch.  Chris, an Eagle scout that's a guide, would be teaching the boys the rafting merit badge while we were on the water.  Dustin completed the team as the designated sweeper.  Chris and Dustin were in double duckies.  We were all in single duckies.  A duckie, for the uninitiated, is an inflatable kayak.  It gets it's name from the way it moves down the calm water, as you paddle you make the kayak waddle.

We all suit up with a life jacket or personal flotation device (PFD), a helmet and a double bladed kayak paddle.  Since all the kayaks are not the same the boys are off, trying to make sure that they get the coolest kayak that most suits their personality.  What does it say about me that I just waited until there was only one kayak left on the beach?  What ever, I just jumped in and started paddling.  The duckies handle pretty easy, but if you're not careful, you will be doing a lot of circles.  That's where Spencer was and while I was trying to help, I wasn't being effective and so Dustin pushed me aside and took over the lessons.  It was with relief and bittersweet sadness that I paddled away.  After a couple of warm up class 2/3 rapids it was determined that Spencer had chosen a raft with larger than normal tubes, and that was affecting his ability to paddle.  I asked if mine would be better for him and it was decided that it would.  A mid river transfer was attempted; Spencer managed to crawl into my duckie, I slipped into the river trying to climb into his duckie.  While attempting to climb into my new duckie I saw the difficulty of the high tube and had to be hoisted into the duckie by one of the guides. 

The days lazily passed, a rapids here, some paddling there, lunch on a beach.  It was hot and humid, but whenever we felt too hot, we'd slip over the side of the duckie and take a swim, if the water was calm that is.  The water temp was about 80, almost too warm some, but for me, just right! 

Jump Rock was pretty cool.  The guys took turns jumping and hamming for the cameras.  I even jumped just to show that I could.  Jump Rock was probably 15 feet up and the water was probably 12 to 15 feet deep.  Good time!

The main event for the day would be a series of rapids called; "Surprise".  Water was channeled just so over the submerged rocks in such a way that a 6 foot standing wave was in the middle of where we wanted to go.  Or was the wave the reason we wanted to go that way?  No matter, it was the call of the water!  Much coaching was being related to us from our guides; "Hit it in the middle!", "Keep paddling, don't stop or you'll get dumped!", "Follow where I go, not the guy that was in front of you."  That last one was pretty crazy hard to follow, I was 20 guys behind him, what chance did I have of seeing his line?

By this point Spencer had gotten out of his duckie and joined Dustin.  Dustin assured Spencer and me that this way he'd be sure to hit the wave in the middle and have the most fun.  Sounded like a plan and from this picture you tell Spencer was having a blast and you can see that Dustin really did get him to the center of the action!




 
Ian kind of slid off to the side and so he didn't get the full effect, but had fun all the same.









 
I hesitate to share my experience, but what the heck, not the first time my mouth wrote a check that my body had to cash and probably wont be the last time either.  It's best to view the whole sequence.

Here's the first, as you can see, I have my game face on, Charge!



 
I hit the wave, and have lost the grip on my paddle, not a good sign.









 
As I slid out of the duckie, I hear in my head, keep a hold of your duckie, it's your friend through the rapids.  As you can see in this shot, I tried.  Take my word for it, it's a lot harder than it appears.  After you've done this, it's a pretty great feeling to just sit and breathe.







The rest of the day on the river was calmer, but still fun.  That night we had dinner at the big top, hamburgers, hot dogs, baked beans, potato salad, chips and cookies.  A great meal. 

Not much going on that Sunday night so we hopped in the car and found our way down to this pretty cool lookout.  The bridge is an engineering marvel and the boys were happy to be able to climb around. 

The Young's, as you can see, are a manly group of men.


 
Across the street was a hill leading to a bluff.  Ian went after it and discovered that the sand was actually shale that was falling off the bluff.


I took this one of Spencer under the huge arch bridge.  The bridge is 836 feet tall.  I had to threaten to throw the boy off in order to get him to look this good for the camera.







Hope you're all having a great summer!
Pat